ABDL EVENTS 2025
Art: @furryjadefox
ABDL EVENTS 2025
Welcome to the official Abysitter.com/ WhyABDL.org Calendar of ABDL Events for 2025. Here you’ll find a curated list of community-inclusive ABDL events, from annual conventions to monthly munches.
Annual ABDL Events: CAPCON/SideQuest, KangaCon
Annual BabyFur Events: BabyFurCon
Quarterly ABDL Events: DiaperActive, DiaperUp
Monthly ABDL Events in communities around the world
Kink/Fetish Events with ABDL Inclusion
ABDL Company Open House Events
We may include events that use vetting to keep participants secure, but I try not to include those who gatekeep or clique up. If you don’t see your favorite event here, it may be for that reason. Feel free to contact me with any questions!
To have your ABDL or ABDL-friendly kink event listed here, email Cwis at abysitter@gmail.com. There is no charge to have your event listed. I am looking for events that are community-inclusive - no ‘clique-ups’ or events that exclude on the basis of age/attractiveness etc. If you are hosting a community-inclusive event, contact me!
Know of an event we missed, or spot an inaccuracy in what you see here? Email us. Thank you!
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JANUARY
CAPCON’S
SIDEQUEST 2025 ADVENTURE
USA | January 1 - 5 | Minneapolis-St. Paul
Website | Twitter | BlueSky
CAPCON is the oldest and largest ageplay convention currently in existence - and is, I like to say, the ‘unofficial ABDL annual reunion.’ Its ‘hotel takeover’ style allows for a full immersion into little space, for those who want it.
This year’s CAPCON is on hiatus due to major renovations at the host hotel in Chicago. That means, for the first time ever, a ‘sidequest’ has been scheduled - for a different city, at a different time. Will this event be similar to CAPCON, or very different? Time will tell. Personally, I’m looking forward to ringing in the New Year padded in the frozen north. I’ll also be teaching my ‘Origins of ABDL’ class there, again.
Traditionally, CAP has always had something for just about everyone:
Classes on topics of all kind - I’ve taught classes there myself in ‘17, ‘18, ‘23, and ‘24.
ABDL furniture and toys galore.
Dedicated spaces for puppies, furries, and middles.
Programming for caregivers.
The ‘Dark Ageplay’ room for those into BDSM and more…
A full-scale ABDL marketplace with more than a dozen vendors.
Sponsor-held parties offsite, and room parties.
This event is typically held in March or early April, but was also branded ‘SummerCAP’ one year due to the pandemic.
This year they’ve added a field trip to the Mall of America amusement park into the mix!
Wondering how the community feels about the Chicago version of this event? You can check out @Diaperperv’s recap of the 2020 event, as well as a convention playlist on her YouTube channel. Here are my initial impressions from my first CAP in 2016, as well, from my blog…
CRINKLY ARCADE
USA | January 21 | San Francisco
The Twitter Post | NEW Telegram Channel
Crinkly Arcade - Soggy January is Tuesday, January 21 from 7-10 pm at Detour.
How are those soggy New Year's resolutions going? It's time for a diaper check!
San Francisco’s Crinkly Arcade is a super fun & casual way to make ABDL friends.
I've discreetly reserved a table for all of us to gather at. We'll be in the back near Cruisin' & Skee-Ball. Look out for Peekabu hats.
I'll order a few snacks for everyone to enjoy!
Everyone is welcome at Crinkly Arcade.
See you there!
Crinkly Arcade is 21+ | Diapers must be covered
That’s it for January. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
FEBRUARY
CAMP FURCUB - WINTER EDITION
Canada | February 6 - 10, 2025 | Lavigne, Ontario
The mission of Camp FurCub is to create a safe, inclusive, and fun place for Baby Furs, their friends, and chosen family, to enjoy together. It is our mission is to have a camp where the Baby Fur community can come together to create a community and make incredible memories together on this rural and secluded property in Canada. They’ll have two events in 2025: Winter Fur Cub from February 6 - 10, and Summer Fur Cub from July 21 - 27.
PROVIDENCE CLUBHOUSE
USA | February 22, 2025| Providence
The Providence Clubhouse is Rhode Island ABDL’s first club takeover where attendees can socialize, wear what they like, and have fun in a relaxed environment! With a combined 3000 square feet of hang-out space everyone can feel as comfortable and as little as they want! Have some snacks in our lounge area with plenty of water to stay hydrated. Play to your heart’s content up in our Littles’ Loft with blocks, toys, and more! If you’re feeling artsy check out the Crayon Corner but don’t worry about coloring within the lines. We’ve got all sorts of games for middles and bigs too!
Visit the website for all the details: https://www.riabdl.com/clubhouse!
DARKLANDS FESTIVAL 2024
Belgium | February 25 - March 3, 2025 | Antwerp
Darklands is Europe's biggest fetish event. It takes place in Antwerp. The event is ABDL-friendly, and includes diapers in its list of acceptable attire in the official dress code. ABU is a sponsor of this event.
That’s it for February. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
MARCH
BABYFUR CON PLUSHIE INVASION - VIRTUAL EVENT
USA | March 15-16, 2025 | Virtual Event
Website | Newsletter | Twitter | BlueSky | Telegram
Babyfur Con® is an adults-only furry convention made for babyfurs, by babyfurs! They are welcoming of everyone, including age players, ABDLs, furries, kidfurs, caretakers, bigs, littles, middles, and more! Their March 2025 virtual convention follows on the heels of their very successful October 2024 IRL one.
I’ve been invited to lead panels at past BFC (virtual) but wasn’t able to do it. Hope to lead one at some point in the future!
DIAPERACTIVE LOS ANGELES
USA | March 29, 2025 | Los Angeles
In Los Angeles? Check out DiaperActive! What started out as a fairly local event has become an event drawing ABDLs from around the country. It’s held at the Bullet Bar LA, and they’ll have at least three of them in 2025! Have questions? Contact @diaperactive on Twitter!
DIAPER UP!
USA | March 29, 2025 | Chicago
Twitter | Telegram Chat | BlueSky
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a brand new quarterly event (circa December ‘23) is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer. Join the official Telegram chat and get to know other regulars before you go!
That’s it for March. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
APRIL
FRECHDAX ABDL - MUNICH
Germany | Weekend of April 5, 2025 | Munich
From the organizer’s website: “After having plenty amounts of fun at various ABDL-Meetups all over the country, we realized one thing: At our own homeland you won't find any good and easy opportunities to meet and commute with like-minded people. That's why we conceived the steady plan to take our experiences from these occasions. And with that to build up unique moments in the same manner. We are pleased to finally offer a place to get together with other "frɘchdax's" in the southern part of the republic.”
That’s it for April. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
The Luvs Boat
MAY
GALACTIC CAMP
USA | May 24 - 26, 2025 | Los Angeles
Galactic Camp is a furry event with a heavy ABDL presence. It is on the aircraft carrier that picked up the most famous diaper boys in the world - the first men to walk on the moon - and they expect to have 100-200 ABDL’s in attendance. Visit the website for more information.
DIAPERACTIVE LOS ANGELES
USA | May 31, 2025 | Los Angeles
In Los Angeles? Check out DiaperActive! What started out as a fairly local event has become an event drawing ABDLs from around the country. It’s held at the Bullet Bar LA, and they’ll have at least three of them in 2025! Have questions? Contact @diaperactive on Twitter!
DIAPER UP!
USA | May 31, 2025 | Chicago
Twitter | Telegram Chat | BlueSky
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a brand new quarterly event (circa December ‘23) is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer. Join the official Telegram chat and get to know other regulars before you go!
That’s it for May. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
JUNE
CAMP CRINKLE!
USA | June 19 - 23, 2025 | Nevada
Intro Page | Official Website - Password is diapers | Organizer’s Twitter
Camp Crinkle! is run by Nacho Husky (Twitter), founder of Babyfur Con and Galactic Camp. It’s an annual event held in Nevada on a site that was actually built especially for padded campers - it boasts twelve beds, as well as tent sites and full RV hookups. Camp Crinkle typically has 30-45 attendees; 2025 will be the fifth iteration of this event. Nacho says that he was recently informed that his campground is the second-most popular attraction in town - “Big diaper is driving the local economy!” For more information on and photos from this event, visit their website; the password is “diapers”.
That’s it for June. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
JULY
SUMMER ‘25: THE LUVS BOAT
USA | Summer| Upstate NY | Private/Vetted
From the organizer’s website - (ME): With more than 60 square miles of surface area on the lake, there’s more than enough room to motor out to a secluded spot, free to be as ‘little’ as we want to be! The Luvs Boat is Cwis’s summer home on the water. Located in upstate New York, it provides a floating nursery and gathering spot for ABDLs from around the state and around the world. While Luvs Boat weekends are technically invite-only events, Cwis has hosted nearly 70 ABDLs so far since 2017. For more information, visit whyABDL.org/boat or email abysitter@gmail.com. 18+
LONDON FETISH WEEK
England | July 6 - 13, 2025 | London
Official Website | Recon’s X Account
From the organizer’s website: “Team Recon is excited to host their annual flagship event in the UK’s capital. Fetish Week London is the UK’s largest gathering of kinksters and presents a fun-packed schedule of events over 8 full days. Thousands of gay, bi, trans, queer and curious men into kink, gear and fetish descend on the city each year, and the team is committed to growing and evolving the event and creating safer and inclusive spaces for our community. While some of your favourite events remain on the schedule, we continue to introduce new social, educational, and entertaining events, alongside building London’s largest kinky fetish playground, where you can safely enjoy and explore your kinks and fetishes in amazing venues across the city.”
Viist Fetishweek.com for more information. ABUniverse is or has been a sponsor of this event.
CANCELED: KANGACON
Australia | July 10 - 13, 2025
Twitter | Official Website | Fetlife
After successful conventions in 2023 and 2024, organizers announced that this year's would be canceled. Ticket holders will be provided full refunds. Read the tweet here.
CAMP FURCUB - SUMMER EDITION
Canada | July 21 - 27, 2025 | Lavigne, Ontario
The mission of Camp FurCub is to create a safe, inclusive, and fun place for Baby Furs, their friends, and chosen family, to enjoy together. It is their mission is to have a camp where the Baby Fur community can come together to create a community and make incredible memories together on this rural and secluded property in Canada. They’ll have two events in 2025: Winter Fur Cub from February 6 - 10, and Summer Fur Cub from July 21 - 27.
That’s it for July. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
AUGUST
DIAPERACTIVE LOS ANGELES
USA | August 30, 2025 | Los Angeles
In Los Angeles? Check out DiaperActive! What started out as a fairly local event has become an event drawing ABDLs from around the country. It’s held at the Bullet Bar LA, and they’ll have at least three of them in 2025! Have questions? Contact @diaperactive on Twitter!
DIAPER UP!
USA | August 30, 2025 | Chicago
Twitter | Telegram Chat | BlueSky
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a brand new quarterly event (circa December ‘23) is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer. Join the official Telegram chat and get to know other regulars before you go!
That’s it for August. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
SEPTEMBER
That’s it for September. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
OCTOBER
FRECHDAX ABDL - MUNICH
Germany | Weekend of October 11, 2025 | Munich
From the organizer’s website: “After having plenty amounts of fun at various ABDL-Meetups all over the country, we realized one thing: At our own homeland you won't find any good and easy opportunities to meet and commute with like-minded people. That's why we conceived the steady plan to take our experiences from these occasions. And with that to build up unique moments in the same manner. We are pleased to finally offer a place to get together with other "frɘchdax's" in the southern part of the republic.”
INTERNATIONAL MR. RUBBER
USA | October 16 - 19, 2025 | Chicago
This is a long-running rubber event that in recent years has become more cross-kink inclusive, including ABDL-related sponsors.
That’s it for October. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
NOVEMBER
DIAPER UP!
USA | November 29, 2025 | Chicago
Twitter | Telegram Chat | BlueSky
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a brand new quarterly event (circa December ‘23) is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer. Join the official Telegram chat and get to know other regulars before you go!
That’s it for November. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
DECEMBER
That’s it for December. Know something we missed? Contact Cwis!
REGIONAL ABDL EVENTS
NYC ABDL LITTLEZ
USA | Multiple Events Per Month | New York
Twitter | Instagram | Fetlife Group | Telegram Channel | Website
New York City has a vibrant ABDL scene, with all kinds of events - bar nights, munches, and even gamer get-togethers - with many held on a monthly basis. Events are open to all. Check out their Fetlife group and Telegram chat for more info!
NYC Diaper Happy Hour is generally held the first Tuesday of the month.
NYC ABDL Munch - every second Saturday of the month.
Padded Gaymers - every third Sunday of the month.
Littlez Parties - Dates vary
DC ABDL / DC AGEPLAYERS
USA | Monthly Events - Happy Hours & Littles Parties | Washington, DC
Fetlife Group | Twitter | Instagram | Bluesky
About Our Group. DC Age Players is a private group for age players of all kinds, big, little, friends, and curious folk focused on the DC/Maryland/Virginia region. We aim to create a safe and inclusive environment for the aforementioned group to meet and build a support system of peers and members of the community. Activities are open to all kink-minded adults regardless of relationship status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity/gender expression, race, color, national origin, religion, personal appearance, socio-economic status, disability, age, genetic information, or source of income. Our events are focused on welcoming newcomers to the community and creating a space for existing members to socialize.
About Our Events. DC Ageplayers has happy hours on a monthly basis to provide an opportunity for like-minded people (new and experienced) to get together and talk about our interests at a public bar. Every three months we throw a big “Littles Party” at a kink friendly bar that lets us wear whatever we want and we have free pizza and other fun party accessories, coloring, face painting, video games on the tvs, and a changing station with free diaper samples from Tykables and ABU. We have occasional little scouts events like going to a bouncy castle and putt putt golf.
Events Summary:
- DC Ageplayers Happy Hours Monthly on Fridays, 6-9pm (Friday varies by month, see announcements; RSVP on fetlife for location)
- DC Ageplayers Littles Parties Quarterly on Fridays, 6-9pm (Green Lantern, dates vary)
- Little Scouts Events - (Locations and dates vary)
RHODE ISLAND ABDL MUNCH
USA | Regular Events | Providence
Fetlife Group | Twitter | Instagram
The Rhode Island ABDL Munch meets every third Tuesday of the month in Providence. March 2024 will mark the event’s third year. Wondering what goes on? The first half of the munch is a group meeting in a private room at a restaurant for a few hours - then the group splits off for a hangout at an area b-arcade for a few more. Attendees can choose to go to both, or just one or the other. For more information, check out the Fetlife group, Twitter, or Instagram!
RVAbdl
USA | Regular Events | Richmond, VA
RVAbdl hosts their monthly meet-and-greet the first Sunday of every month at Thirsty’s RVA Lounge, one of the queer-friendly bars in Richmond, VA. The main bar is open from 3 to 7 and requests regular street clothes; the group moves over to the private lounge from 7 to 10, where ABDL gear is welcome and encouraged! For more information, click here.
PUDDLE SCOUTS CHICAGO
USA | Regular Events | Chicago
Official Website | Twitter | BlueSky
From the organizer’s website:
Puddle Scouts is an organization focused on the LGBTQ+ ABDL community in the Chicagoland area. Providing members of our community with well-planned, organized events and gatherings where they can feel safe and welcomed. As an organization, we function charitably and provide assistance to community members, or organizations/charities who are in need.
DIAPER UP!
USA | Quarterly | Chicago
Twitter | Telegram Chat | BlueSky
Diaper Up And Dance! This is a quarterly event, and is sponsored by DeltaFrost Prouductions. From their webiste: Celebrate, explore, and make new connections as you dance and crinkle the night away at Chicago's Leather and Fetish Club, Jackhammer. Join the official Telegram chat and get to know other regulars before you go!
DIAPERACTIVE LOS ANGELES
USA | Quarterly Events | Los Angeles
In Los Angeles? Check out DiaperActive! What started out as a fairly local event has become an event drawing ABDLs from around the country. It’s held at the Bullet Bar LA, and they’ll have at least three of them in 2024: March 30, June 29, and August 31 are planned so far!
STAY CRINKLY ARIZONA!
USA | Monthly Events & More |Phoenix, AZ
Stay Crinkly AZ began hosting a monthly social in Phoenix, AZ in early 2023. Events are typically held the second Wednesday of the month at Bunkhouse - see their Twitter for more information. They also team up with Arizona Pups & Handlers for occasional events, like ‘Glow-In-The-Dark Mini-Golf’ in January 2024.
CRINKLY ARCADE!
USA | Regular Events | San Francisco
The Twitter Post | NEW Telegram Channel
Spring has sprung a leak! San Francisco APDL (arcade, pinball, diapers & laughs) event Crinkly Arcade - Spring Soak Hosted by Stevie is Tuesday, April 9 from 7-10 pm at arcade bar The Detour. Be sure to wear your cutest spring pastels or Easter outfits. Crinkly Arcade is a super fun & casual way to make ABDL friends. Diapers must be covered.
For more info, contact Stevie on Twitter or Instagram. Join the Telegram channel for the latest!