When I started the Q&A Series in 2012 my intention was to give ABDLs a place to share more about themselves than would fit in that little tiny bio section on our websites - think Aby.com, RUPadded.com, Diaper-Bois, or DiaperSpace.

Since then other places where we can share more of ourselves - Fetlife and Tumblr, especially - have become central to the community. Still, over the years, more than 100 ABDLs have answered my Q&A questions - even writing and answering some additional questions of their own.

I know that the Q&A's are having an impact on the community because people approach me at CAPCON and reach out to me online to let me know about something they read in a particular Q&A that meant something to them. It's an amazing feeling to know that someone else's story mirrors your own, and that's happened countless times in the context of the Abysitter.com Q&A's.

Want to do a Q&A? Email me, and put Q&A in the subject… I’ll reply with the questions. As always, 18+.

Question 1:

“When did you first realize you were an ABDL?”

Question 2:

“What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child or a teen?”

Question 3:

"Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please share how they reacted."

Question 4:

"Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle?" 

Question 5:

"For collegebabies/DLs, did this affect your college experiences? If so, how?" 

Question 6:

"How has this fetish/lifestyle affected your social life? Dating? Married life? Parenting?"  

Question 7:

"Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?" 

Question 8:

"For the older generation, please tell us more about what it was like being ABDL before social networking?" 

Question 9:

"For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the internet?" 

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Question 10:

"Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as baby furs, diaper discipline, wet/messy, sissybabies, etc.? Please tell us about it."

Question 11:

"What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?" 

Question 12:

“If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel?" 

Question 13:

"Don't let yourself be limited by my questions. If you have anything else at all that you would like to say, please feel free to say it here..."