Q12: If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel?
The best dreams I've ever have always seem to end with me waking suddenly, a horrible sadness overcoming me, wishing desperately that I could return to the scene of the dream.
Of course, I can't.
In most of those dreams I'm with my family in my earlier years.
In some, I'm in elementary school. In others, I'm in high school.
But in all of them I am being babied again - diapered, fed in a high chair, put in a playpen... you get the idea.
I've been humiliated in front of the neighbors as I sat in nothing but a diaper, confined to a playpen out on the middle of the dock, all the other kids swimming and frolicking but me.
And I've been cuddled by my cousins - all of them taking turns - as I lay on the couch in the living room I grew up in, slurping from a baby bottle, in complete ecstasy.
These dreams don't happen often - definitely not nearly often enough! - but when they do, I eventually wake up feeling so incredibly little that the realization that I actually have to get dressed and go through my 'adult' day just seems - awful.
It's at that moment, when I'm laying in bed realizing sad that it was all a dream, that I'll never really be able to feel that little... that's when I begin to understand how much I'd be willing to give up everything just to be able to feel like that all the time.
And while I know that's not practical - it certainly doesn't change how badly I want it in that moment.
I've 'abysat' many members of our community through the years, and I've seen how desperately some of us want to be able to get into that 'little' headspace.
And I've been to CAPCON several times, attending class after class where people describe the intense yearning they have - that they've always had - to be able to find their little side.
I try to help people find that. Regression is a hard thing to create, though. No matter how much you try, the right chemistry has to be there to make it happen. Sometimes it seems legitimate, and other times it feels forced. I've seen both more than once.
I've only been truly regressed twice - once by Baby Mikey and once by Little Z - and both times felt fucking amazing. I've had many offers in between - many offers lol - but the truth is I have to trust someone with every ounce of my being before I can let myself even begin to think about leaving adult headspace.
Other ABDLs I've met are lucky enough to be able to fall into little space within minutes of meeting a 'daddy' figure.
Others of us have no desire to regress at all, at first, and slowly become curious about it.
I've also met members of our community who find their urge to regress itself regressing over the years - littles who find their 'daddy' or 'mommy' side, for example.
And, of course, there are the DL's, some of whom understand regression, and others who are offended by the very notion of it.
I'm always interested in finding out how others feel about it, and why. Thus the questions below...
- CWIS
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ABenjaminButton
24, New York USA & Italy | March 14, 2018
Since deciding I wanted to make being AB/DL a part of who I identified as I always used to lean heavily in the direction of being more DL since I knew I was sexually attracted to wearing diapers alone and knew I didn’t regress to a level of little space that my other AB/DL friends did. But as I’ve begun to reflect on my needs emotionally I discovered that there was an element of being cared for and loved unconditionally that I required to feel calm. I’ve discovered awhile ago that wearing things like onesies and colorful clothes that reminded me of my childhood made me feel cute and small, an aesthetic I could project that not only relaxed me but made me more sure of myself. Like scratching this “mental itch” to feel small meant that I was listening to needs I didn’t necessarily understand but indicated I cared enough about myself to do something this bizarre. I think agreeing with your little side, and letting that little person inside of you actually be himself or herself is incredibly therapeutic and demonstrates a huge amount of self-care and self-respect. Most recently I’ve been experimenting with being little with a non-AB/DL daddy and am starting to understand more clearly who I am as a little and how coming away from that roleplaying just how happy and fulfilled I suddenly feel. Diapers are still a huge part of the equation for me but trying to focus on the age-playing and not the diapers for the first time is showing me new things and makes me very excited to continue along this funny journey of being an AB/DL. [READ MORE]
BabySidekick
23 New Hampshire USA | April 4, 2018
Regression. Or rather more like releasing who I am, this is what this is for me. I'm not one to judge this who fetishize it and i don't care enough to get into a war over what tags we use or don't use on blog posts.
If diapers give you boners more power to you sometimes they give me them too. But for me being padded, in my favorite kiddish clothes snuggled up with my cat buried under plushies and watching the lord of the rings for the 10zillionth time or cartoons like justice league without a care in the world…... wondering if i have dino nuggets left in the freezer….. or playing a video game and letting myself talk out loud to it without being embarrassed coming up with silly stories about the characters and stuff thats me.
Regression is a deep therapy and it gets easier to regress the more you do it.
Now having someone put you into little space is amazing...it is so much easier than trying to do it alone. I've only had a handful of meetings with other abdls and i'm very excite to get more into it so that I can be me and make more friends. [READ MORE]
Little Skywalker
23 San Francisco CA USA | April 2, 2018
Oh hell yeah. I love the idea of being dressed down and being taken down a few pegs. There’s something special about being taken out of your big boy clothes and into something soft and crinkly, with a cute onesie and a paci clipped to your shirt. Regression for me is sort of 50/50. Half forced, half willing. Forced part is being made to wear the cute clothes and diaps. The willingness part falls to you, where you can continue to be 23, or accept that you’re really only 4 inside. I choose the latter :) [READ MORE]
DiaperBoyAres
24, The Netherlands | January 11, 2018
I like onesies, pacifiers, and such, but I have a hard time to go into a baby-like state of mind all by myself. In my behavior I tend to behave more like a bratty teenager who likes to elicit a reaction from others. That’s how I naturally regress by myself. I take different elements from different stages of life. I’m not able to say: “when I’m in little mode, I’m ‘x’ years old”. It’s just a mixture of stuff, I don’t feel bound to the characteristics that would come with a certain age.
If I have a caregiver/daddy, it really depends on how he would treat me. If a daddy would pull me on his lap, feed me from a sippy cup and asks: “Has baby already done some peepee or poopoo in his diapee?” I would instantly feel like a baby, and behave like one.
Regressing in such a way does feel very relaxing. I tend to forget all the daily hassle. [READ MORE]
KineseCD
20, Amsterdam, The Netherlands | April 15, 2017
There is an aspect of regression here but it's hard to tell exactly what it is. People have told me that very few ABs slip into their regressed form more naturally than I do, and notably, the first time I did in front of others, I barely noticed it happening and it wasn't intended. Since then, it has happened around people that don't know about my little side as well, in moments where I feel very comfortable with the people I'm around. I get much more impulsive, say whatever comes to mind and either start jumping around or will randomly sit on the floor or on my knees on chairs. Those are the small symptoms. When I regress deeper I turn into a fragile little thing. I have cried when my diapers leaked before in the past, to name something. The exact mechanics of my regression are still being researched but these are some things I know about it ^^. [READ MORE]
ATwinkyToddler
21, Pacific Northwest USA | March 4, 2017
I have yet to really delve into this sort of thing. I do want to try, but the hardest part is letting go. I mean, I'm not crazily interested in regression, but I'll try most things once. I don't think regression should be lumped into ABDL. While the two can very much so go hand in hand, sometimes they don't. I can see why people think ABDL can mean regression, but I know some people who are into just being a little, and don't like diapers at all. [READ MORE]
ABToddler
San Diego, CA USA | March 11, 2019
For me it’s the same thing as I was doing when I was a kid, I never really stopped. I love the same cartoons I used to watch, I will rewatch them now. I will seek out the new cartoons and stories to watch on the tv. For me it is the day to day stuff that keeps me comfortable. I sleep with plushies and tons of pillows because of the adjustments needed to account for the pain. I wear my footies to keep my feet warm. I have my plastic pants so I don’t leak on the couch, the foods I eat are specific for my stomach health. I don’t really get out of little space because everything that ive had to find healthy diet, social interactions, and mental health comes through being little. How scared I get, how adventurous I feel, all of that, is the same as ive always been. I am more the little boy version of me, than anything else. I have found that to try and separate “age/regression” from my behaviors these days is not an issue anymore. I will continue to enjoy life as long as I am able. It’s the happy point, I might not talk because of the meds, because of the pain, because of what ever reason im not verbal and being able to hold my plush, or snuggle daddy or champ, and im okay with it. That’s who I am, because it’s the best version of me in my opnion, who can love endlessly, who can explore, who can go through the same motions every day and still not have the energy to be anything other than little. I do not have anything else that I can be, so I am trying to just make the best of that. [READ MORE]
Alexander
19, Arizona, USA | April 5, 2012
This part is a little strange for me.
So, I'd love to be "babied" in that I'd like to be changed, bottle fed, try crib-time, suck on a paci and wear onesies, but I can't say that I'd have an easy time getting into "baby mode" unless it was something that was forced on me.
I definitely value my own intelligence and being able to have an intelligent conversation with my partner and/or my friends. Plus, I feel like people talk down to babies, and being talked down at is one of my biggest pet-peeves. [READ MORE]
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William, aka ALittleRobotKid
New Jersey, USA | January 6, 2015
Definitely. I'm a little. I don't really consider it "regressing" as much as just being able to be myself. Listen, when I'm out at a friend's and we're hanging out having drinks or smoking or whatever...I would rather be coloring, or watching some cartoon, or even playing tag, hide and go seek, or climbing trees.
I am a kid at heart. I like dorky fun things to do. Board games and making fun of stuff.
I'm not a baby tho. I don't like baby food. I think baby toys are boring, and I can think and speak.
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James aka APaddedGuyJ
24, Wiltshire, United Kingdom | February 19, 2018
As I mentioned in one of the questions above, it all depends on what mood I’m in and whether I’m in the right headspace. Some days I totally dig the regression aspect, and want nothing more than to be a little baby boy, safe in my daddies arms. Other days it might be more of a toddler or even older child kinda regression, going back to a time where nappies were an added layer of security, where you still need to be looked after, cared for and loved by a caregiver but aren’t completely dependant on them. Other days I just want to pad up and then carry on with the day as normal. So it all depends on the mood and the day. [READ MORE]
Baby Mickey
25, Oregon USA | May 23, 2012
I do get into the regression side of things. I have a persona that is between the ages of 3-4 and he needs his mommy. He talks baby talk, uses a bottle, has a collection of pacifiers, likes baby print diapers, wears footed pjs and onesies. It's awesome to be Baby Mickey sometimes and I really enjoy it. There isn't really a specific time that I move into that frame of mind, it just depends on my mood and such. I wouldn't change my regression habits for anything. [READ MORE]
Caliboy557
31 Los Angeles, CA, USA | September 25, 2018
I’m not really into regression. If I had an AB side it would be as a “Middle” a 14-16 year old teen with OAB and bedwetting issues coming to terms with his situation and trying to make new friends that also share an interest in diapers/have similar issues. I can’t say this is really something I’ve explored with other people though. More just my own personal “fantasy”. [READ MORE
Champ
29 Monterey, CA USA | April 3, 2015
I like the idea of losing control, always have. So when I first started really going for full time use, I would talk a lot in my journals about 'regression'- accidents, giving into my need to wear, and the calming effect of pacifiers and other accessories. Regressing to the mental state of a toddler doesn't do it for me, though. I much prefer to think of myself as a big boy who is in diapers for his 'own good', especially when playing with others. If I'm in little mode, I'm more comfortable acting like a kid than a baby. I know I kind of mix the AB and DL side of things when talking about diapers, and I hope it's not confusing. For some people they are very separate, for me they aren't. [READ MORE]
Joshy aka ChooChooBaby
33 Buffalo, NY USA | July 2, 2015
I have found that regression is pretty natural for me and I do it really easily with the right treatment from someone. When I'm regressing myself, I forget about everything in the world and just put my focus on coloring or playing in the bath or just being in the moment. Being regressed by someone else, I tend to have a hard time thinking and sometimes forget my letters or how to talk very good. I just love the intimate moments of the baby/parent thing like bedtime stories and diaper changes and cuddling and bottle feeding. It's so special and intimate and it just makes you feel cared for and loved. [READ MORE]
CrinklyConnor
23 Wichita KS USA | February 23, 2019
I live the lifestyle very often when I’m not at work, so I bounce from being in adult mode and regressed pretty often and fairly quickly. [READ MORE]
Dattbabbywolff
25 Louisiana, USA | December 5, 2014
I do regress.
I feel when I am in little mode, I have the sensation of my limbs physically shrinking, and while obviously I don’t literally shrink, I see bright flashes in my mind's eye of the world from where I’m standing but simply with my little proportions.
I become giggly and cheeky, I would estimate my arms are less than half as strong as they normally are, and any motion requiring physical strength demands a titanic effort.
Colors appear to be more vivid and I must also concentrate to separate sounds. I am also more sensitive to any sort of stimulus, whether negative or pleasant, and can be more emotionally sensitive, like how I was before I learned to defend these parts of me. [READ MORE]
DBCayden
23 Dallas, TX USA | December 2, 2015
The regression is probably the biggest and most important part for me.
Being a paramedic and only 23 years old, I've already seen many things during the course of my job that people just DO NOT need to EVER see in their lives. After a day at work, all I want to do when I get home is forget about what I dealt with that day and be padded in super thick diapers, locked into a sleeper, and cuddled while I suck on my paci....and just breathe.
Sometimes I just pad up and lay in bed under the covers and hold my stuffed tigger and just pretend that I have someone holding me.
Leon, aka DiaperMoxxi
18 Cambridgeshire, England | February 13, 2013
Well, it's been sort of a lifelong dream for this to happen, really :P. I've had online daddies which is nice and all well, but I'd really love to be able to meet up with a Daddy and be regressed properly and feel like a proper baby :) Whenever I'm alone I always have my paci nearby and usually cuddling my blankie :P but now I feel like it's not enough.
I'd love to experience being changed and being babied really. My age is 3 I think, is what I've always felt like being haha. And whenever I sleep in bed with everything and my stuffed toy, kissing him goodnight always makes me feel great and helps me sleep too :). [READ MORE]
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Nathan, aka Diapscort
20 Chester UK | June 4, 2012
Like I said earlier im more of a toddler whose still in nappies when I regress my problem is I enjoy regression but sometimes when people talk down to me like I was a baby it really annoys me I prefer to feel young but still spoke to like I know what is going on in the world if that makes sense. One of the main things for me during regression is mainly just having someone take care of my Nappy needs so I don’t have to worry about how wet it is.
If it is going to leak/ changing myself I totally enjoy having someone checking me and changing me. [READ MORE]
DiaperWhiz
28 Brooklyn NY USA | April 19, 2012
I don't want to act like a baby, I like wearing baby clothes and would consider myself an AB, but i don't do baby talk or anything like that. I like to think of myself as more along the lines of a boy who is punished and put back into diapers and baby clothes as humiliation for being a bedwetter or for being naughty. Growing up in web 1.0, there wasn't a lot of image sharing, just cause it used to fucking take so long! haha, so I used to read a bunch of stories where the humiliation aspect was a huge part of it. I used to get so turned on by them. I remember one where there was a teenage boy whose brother gets put back into diapers, but while the parents are away the teen tries on a diaper and accidentally locks himself in the crib only to have his family come home and find him as the baby, and decide to keep him that way. I have to thank deeker for implanting all these fantasy scenarios in my head that I would act out over and over again in my high school mind. haha. [READ MORE]
DprSteve92
23 Myrtle Beach, SC USA | January 9, 2016
I like to regress to that of a 3 to 4 year old who is still in diapers. I never really felt comfortable with being little until I met my big bro and daddy. They really helped me let down those walls that we all face when trying to get into headspace. One thing I can say is… wow! what an amazing feeling it is to be able to actually enjoy being little. To anyone reading this: don’t be ashamed at all! You are a unique human being, which is so much better than the dreaded "normal". [READ MORE]
E-Wolf
18 Westminster MD USA | November 10, 2012
I am very interested in the regression aspect of it, but I haven’t met someone that I trust enough to do it with yet that is also an ABDL. To be honest I’m a bit nervous about the exploring the AB side of the spectrum, possibly because for a long time I’ve been constantly trying to be mature and adult-like so to speak. To go back to acting like a baby seems almost counter-intuitive to everything I’ve sought to gain by acting the way I have almost all my life.
So I’m still open to it, but it’s going to be difficult for me to just let go, it probably stems from paranoia and wanting to be in control that my parents pretty much ingrained into my brain ever since I joined the Furry Fandom. [READ MORE]
Galvatron149
34 Dorset UK | November 4, 2015
I do get into the regression side of it, if anything whilst I do describe Abdl as a fetish, for me it's more a feeling of comfort and relaxation. I like to get into little mode and relax when I can, and that normally incorporates simply diapering up, and letting my mind drift away! Would love to try a full proper adult baby nursery setting as well... Be fed in a Highchair, sleep in a crib, all that stuff! [READ MORE]
Dan aka Growing-boysXL
22 Leesburg, Virginia USA | May 28, 2017
I love being treated like I’m a little boy. My little age is between 7-11, since I’m more into the “adult boy” fetish than “adult baby”. For me it goes back to my childhood and the pictures I used to draw and experiences I had. It’s all about that taboo humiliation and “In diapers?! At *his* age?!?” Kind of thing. When I’m big it’s all about that vulnerability and seeing a guy reduced to nothing but a toddler. It can be a huge part of sex, but as far as when a guy gets little, I’m also a big snuggly daddy who likes to spoil and baby his little guy platonically as well. [READ MORE]
Iker Nash
29 Mexico City Mexico | September 7, 2020
I love regression a lot, for me it’s a way to learn more about the feelings, specially to feel joy for the small things and also be able to express playfulness and love, it’s a great way to feel free.
Over the last year I have found that I enjoy more when I am able to share a regression with others I love inventing fun games, reading cute books, coloring and playing a lot in the park.
I love meeting new friends you can find me on Instagram, Twitter and Telegram as Iker Nash feel free to say hi anytime!
ImaginationOfABoy aka Baby Xander
20 Traveling the USA | December 26, 2015
Age regression, for me, is the safest, coziest, and most freeing setting I can imagine, and I have one crazy imagination! [READ MORE]
JayCub
21 Omaha, Nebraska USA | January 15, 2016
Regression to me is hard to explain. I regress, but when I regress I have to be extremely comfortable, I have to feel safe in the environment I am in. I prefer to regress on my own time around specific people some more then others. How I regress on a typical basis is a nice set of PJ's, a paci at hand, and thick padding watching cartoons or a movie cuddled up in blankets. I love being warm and cuddled and kiss when regressed. It's always a great feeling to me. [READ MORE]
Jeffy
22 Austin Texas USA | February 9, 2013
Age regression is a huge part of being ABDL for me. I can’t just simply play the part and have it feel good, for some reason I have to be in JUST the exact right mood, and there are some very special people out there who have the ability to put me in exactly that headspace, and have mentally regressed me through triggers, or even through hypnosis I have experimented with in the past. The fact is, if I can’t regress, then I can’t be a baby, and I gotta be a baby, so I gotta regress! [READ MORE]
ThatLittleJoel
19 Wisconsin, USA | September 12, 2020
Just the innocence of letting go and letting yourself be free. Sucking on a pacifier and being content. A comfort item or blankie to hold or wrap yourself with and feeling all warm inside. Taking pictures and posing in onesies and overalls people telling you that you are cute and so precious. Playing with toys and creating a world to play in. I mean there are so many more examples that just make me melt. Just knowing and having something you can escape to is lovely. I get to experience being a child even though I still really am a child. Life moves too quickly to grow up and I want to experience moments where I do not have to be an adult.
Kita Sparkles
June 5, 2018
I don't see it as being regressed - I see it as being my true self. I have dolls out in my home. My baby bottle sits in the cupboard and comes out at night when I go to bed. There is diaper rash cream, baby oil, and baby wipes in several areas in my house. Diapers are stacked openly in the bathroom. A plastic sheet and crib bars are on my bed. as well as Frozen character sheet sets, and don't even get me started on my closet. A dollhouse sits atop a dresser.
Not everyone knows I am a little girl. There are people I know would refuse to understand it, so I don't show it to them. If they are coming over, the diapers are hidden and the bedroom door is closed. I do keep up with my adult responsibilities. Sometimes, away from home, I will got out dressed in my little girl dresses. Ok ok, maybe more than just "sometimes". The way that I hope people will treat me is just like you would a "real little girl". That's how Mommy does - she will tell me when I must eat, check my diapers and change me when she wishes, she chooses my clothes when we are together. [READ MORE]
Kyle/Kai
23 St. Louis MO USA | December 6, 2018
At times i feel like i use regresion instead of freak outs sometimes which ive only ever had one of just a small one but that defeated feeling that lead to it makes me feel like a different person. i know i cant control everything but thing i can but i dont do anything about is a terrible choice in my mind. feelinig and a bit acting out is a much better and probably safer substitute for me. not doing to many rash decisions. there might be a little more i can write about this but i cant think of the right words for it rigt now. [READ MORE]
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Kyleman93/DiaperedRebel
26 Saint Louis MO USA | February 1, 2019
When I regress I usually am dressed up in a diaper, onesie or childish shirt and sometimes overalls. I found that a paci or sippy cups are enjoyable to use outside of being little too. My little activities are usualy watching cartoons, driving my big truck, building something, or legos. [READ MORE]
LBPrince99
19 Atlanta GA USA | December 7, 2018
I’m not really into the regression aspect of ABDL, but I can understand the fun about some of the age play. [READ MORE]
Chuck aka LittleBoyC
23 Kansas | December 13, 2014
I do regress! i start whenever i get changed into diapers i just become a big ol giggly baby. i get super shy and dont talk much. i just act like i love everything and never leave anywhere without my stuffie, that is a must for when i regress! [READ MORE]
LittleBoyJakey
21 Richmond, VA | November 13, 2020
I most certainly do regress, of course if you know me or follow me then you’ll know that I’m a huge baby! I’m almost always in little space to some degree and I’ve more or less let it become a part of my daily life. You’d be hard pressed to find me out and about not wearing at least one article of little clothing, being a little is really who I am! I am genuinely just a little boy in a big boy body making my way through life being as sweet as I can!
I do want to touch on the fact that little space, whether you like it or not is a kink. DO NOT involve or allow minors to be involved in your kink. It’s dangerous for everyone! Their time will come to join the community! Don’t put yourself or others in danger, not only could it be detrimental to your life it makes a horrible name for our community. We are a group of consenting (and adorable) adults who like to be cutesy and dress up like kids and wear diapers, let’s keep that to consenting adults!
Littleguyau
35 Melbourne, Victoria Australia | November 4, 2018
More so every day, I enjoy the idea of being someone's little guy, being a super-helpful kiddo around the house (that's in my nature, generally). It could be related to being on the Autism spectrum, but I feel like I never really properly learnt how to do basic growedup things. Don't get me wrong, I get by, but I could definitely use some tweaks to do things more effectively - washing clothes, cooking etc. [READ MORE]
LittleXan
28 Southeast England | March 7, 2019
I love regression and for me it happens naturally. It can be when im padded and i will watch pooh bear or play with my teddies. But it happens in everyday life too, I can be out somewhere and if there is a toy or something I want I will act like a little kid. I have always sucked my thumb since I was little and still do. If im tired, it just slips in without me realising.
Also I have my trusty best friend Bear. He comes lots of places with me, whenever I sleep at a different house, he comes with me. If I go for a day trip he will come too. I cant sleep properly without him. So a lot of regression aspects, I display in my normal self. The only thing im missing is a Daddy to look after me and guide me ^_^ [READ MORE]
Little Joshy
20 Suburban Philadelphia, PA USA | January 5, 2016
I haven't really gotten the chance to regress that far into littlespace. When I do I mostly just watch cartoons like rugrats while padded with my pacifiers in. I would love to regress more but I think that would require me being with my big bro. He lives far away from me but I hope to be able to visit with him sometime in the future. [READ MORE]
Lorenzo
21 Ohio USA | January 17, 2017
The regression aspect I love. It just feels so nice being taken care of and being babied. Having to be dependable on somebody else to change you, carry you, feed you and that. Gets me so much in the little mood getting babied. Especially getting spanked and getting my diaper change to puts me in the place. Also love bubble baths to. Just makes you feel so little and childish. Makes me giggle and smile getting babied. Cuddles are the best too. [READ MORE]
LT
22 Virginia USA | February 6, 2013
Personally, I like being able to let go of everything that is going on in my life for a little while... which is what happens when I'm able to regress. Unfortunately, I have not ever had the pleasure of being babied by anyone but I do still enjoy being able to do it on my own. Although, I don't like considering it a fetish for myself because it isn't sexual for me. [READ MORE]
Min
33 Colorado Springs CO USA | November 15, 2016
I usually always start regressing and becoming extremely submissive as soon as a diaper is put on me. I've spent several days upto a week of being diapered/little and almost always wear diapers to bed at night. I find it relaxing as my job is pretty stressful and helps me unwind. I also used to have a sleeping problem but I find it helps me fall asleep at night. [READ MORE]
NappiedMike
London UK | November 26, 2012
I am a hypnotherapist, so I have a few people ask if I can regress or make them incontinent. As long as it's done safely, then I'm fine with it. [READ MORE]
OneFitStoner420
28 Providence RI USA | June 10, 2018
I absolutely love regressing to a toddler like age and having someone take care of me. It is extremely comforting knowing that I can let go of being a big boy and letting my little side out helps reduce the stress of everyday life and lets me enjoy the simpler times in life. If I could be a toddler 24/7 I would not hesitate to take up the offer or opportunity. [READ MORE]
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Pacifires
26 Alabama USA | March 4, 2019
That depends on how you look at it. I don't ever mentally regress to a younger age, but I do frequently use little items and do little activities. When I first started being able to actively engage this side of me, I tried almost too hard to gear what I did towards the DL side. It was almost like I thought that made it /better/ in a way, what with all the residual shame and guilt surrounding it.
On my journey to acceptance I came to realize that I was still burying things. I wanted to do little things. I wanted to have a pacifier and use a sippy cup. I wanted to build blocks and play with my stuffies. Wearing a onesie had always been a fantasy of mine. It just got to the point that I finally gained the courage to try it. So I do get into the regression side of things in my own way, but then again I don't. If I were to pick a little age for myself it would be around 5 or 6 years old. I don't really like the idea of having a set age range, though. I just kind of do what I feel like doing and I don't think I need a term to define it. [READ MORE]
PaddedCrinkles
33 Phoenix AZ USA | April 14, 2019
I do occasionally enjoy regression. It's pretty hard for me to switch off my adult brain, but sometimes I can let myself fall into emotionally little responses when in the right head space. To get there, it takes a fair bit of help: diapers, onesies, pacis, bottles, etc. It's an interesting experience for me, and tends to be more therapeutic than anything. In times when I need some stress or anxiety management, it is pretty powerful. When I do regress, sexual desires tend to fade, and anything sexual quickly feels unwelcome. That aspect has been hard for me to deal with sometimes; it's especially hard to explain to an outsider.
Padded-DJ
27 New Orleans LA USA | June 3, 2018
While I have never had any issues with the AB side, I only identified as a DL for years. It clicks with me more and more every day though. I love the idea of being regressed now. [READ MORE]
Pup Artemis
27 San Fransisco CA USA | October 16, 2018
Love it. Love every second. Some daddy/Sir type I click with wants me to be his little puppy boy I will be happily wagging away. I’ll fuss a bit and make them get a bit forceful with me generally because that’s part of the fun. But someone willing to diaper me and put me in my gear then just snuggle and cuddle me is someone who will melt my heart. And on the other side of things I love helping others regress. It makes my paternal side so happy to see a little one comfortable in my arms in just a diaper sucking a pacifier. Or bottle feeding him well I rub his belly. Or watching him wet himself and not realize it’s happening because he’s so deep in his little space. Cuddling well we watch paw patrol and he claps excitedly along with the TV. It’s those feelings that I live for. [READ MORE]
PupKeno
25 New York, NY USA | August 2, 2018
The only Ab tendencies I have is that I enjoy my paci. Other then that I enjoy regressing little guys into little space. It’s side of me in which has took time to accept, but I now enjoy being the daddy/big bro. I’m such a nurturing person that my goal is for a little to feel accepted, to feel like they aren’t alone, that they are protective because feeling safe is a big one, know a littles comfort zone and having their consent, and knowing what triggers them into that headspace. For someone assume all abdls want to regress means to just educate them, no need to be upset. [READ MORE]
Ronikat
18 San Diego, CA USA | August 18, 2012
I've always loved being treated like a baby. It makes me feel like I have no real worries, that someone else is going to take care of me and i have nothing to worry about. When I regress it kinda just takes the whole stress of Military life off of my shoulders. It also used to kinda be a therapy treatment for me when I was still in school and living at home. Starting about the time I turned 13, if I was ever just feeling horrible, like really sad or depressed, my mom would kind of treat me as though i was still 2 years old. She'd talk to me like i was a baby, or she might cuddle me while we watched a movie, or give me a bottle and pretty much just baby me til i was happy again. I had an aunt that kinda babied me, too, and since I've gotten older I've had a few friends try it out. :P [READ MORE]
Paul Rulof aka RuleOfThree
33 Chicago IL USA | May 22, 2013
I'm currently interested in hypnotic regression, as well as forced regression, especially with bathroom use and mental state. Physical and mental helplessness, and dependency are all very hot to me.
I have some issues with being lumped into fetishes. I understand it's easy and for some people, the only way that they'll understand. But I also don't think that seperating folks into camps and dividing ourselves is the way to be. As a community, Radical Inclusivity is the only way that we can operate. [READ MORE]
SDKBoi
24 Destin, FL USA | February 3, 2019
Age regression is something that I recently got into within the last 3-4 years. For me age regression is a way of escaping the big world and just enjoying life for what it is and embracing all of the wonderful things that are on this earth from a different viewpoint. About 9 months ago a guy walked into my life and swept me off my feet. He’s a member of the kink community and when I expressed what I was into. He took it upon himself to read about it and do everything he could to help me get into the age regression aspect. Now there are times where as soon as I walk into his house I regress instantly. I love my daddy for everything he has and continues to do. [READ MORE]
Shadow
28 Austin TX USA | February 9, 2019
I do love to regress down to my little age. I like to watch cartoons, I like to play with legos. I will get cereal and sit it on the bed scattered around and eat them while watching tv. In normal life, I’m a very loud and bouncy person, but when I regress, I get very shy and kind of quiet. [READ MORE]
SGB
25 Eureka CA USA | September 20, 2012
As a Daddy, I enjoy some parts of regression and dislike other parts. I like having to provide additional care for an AB, like dressing them, brushing their teeth, teaching them things, and holding their hand while out and about. I dislike babytalk. For some reason I just can't tolerate it. Excessive bratty or whiney behavior can also get on my nerves, and not in a good way. I'm fine with correcting misbehavior once or twice in scene, but every few hours gets tedious. [READ MORE]
StrengthOfTurningTides
22 Shropshire UK | June 19, 2018
I remember on GayBabyDiaperHangout (back in that day), they had some hypnosis content on there. Now, although none of the wetting/messing hypnosis worked on a physical level, the regression most certainly did and I loved it! Nothing mattered, and all my worries left me. I really do think I could use this now!
Since then, I've only tried a couple of times, and my conclusion is I think I was more susceptible to it back then.
As I said earlier, adult problems can overwhelm a person so much so, they can't regress and unfortunately I'm one of those people.
I've always wanted to go to one of these ABDL nurseries for a week just to regress as I think if i knew it was a relatively long term thing with a trustee, in the setting and with a good, experienced caregiver - maybe I could once again enjoy the feeling. But until my adult life allows it and until my partner would too, it's not liable to happen soon!
TeddyNhislittle
22 Chicago IL USA | February 9, 2019
While I am a switch 50/50 between my abdl/little side and my daddy side I tend to show my littles idea far more on social Media. As for the regression aspect I'd say it's just all about relaxing and being able to enjoy the time I never got to have as a kid. I'll like to Color but instead of children's coloring books I have an overwatch one , instead of watching some children cartoons I'll watch some light hearted anime. I'd say my little said is between 4-5 and just hasn't gotten potty training down xP [READ MORE]
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ThePaddedProfessional
26 Philadelphia PA USA | January 29, 2012
I do get into being regressed. I really like being turned back into a little boy and being taken care of by a daddy or big bro. I like for them to be in control and give me a bath or diaper change when i need. like my paci and my bunny and i like being dressed in baby clothes (onesies, sleeper, shortalls, etc.). i like being taken out in diapers too...sometimes i know that i'm a naughty little boy and need to be spanked and put in the corner... [READ MORE]
ToddlerBoiCharlie
19 Charlotte, NC USA | October 31, 2012
Well for me I am mostly focused around the regression fact of being an AB and so I do get into it. I have found that regression for me is the best way of stress relief and giving my self a sense of security in my life. Being in toddler mode just allows the stress to melt away and for me to spend a little bit of time just being a little boy with no worries or anxiety. [READ MORE]
Welshdiaper
24 Wales UK | May 8, 2015
For me, a lot of little things make me get into the little headspace. I say that I don't really have an "age" that I regress too, but it does feature a lot of crawling, very little, if any talking, complete diaper usage (with permission from parental figure at the time) and a penchant for soft toys.
Whether its the act of sucking on a dummy, being taped into a diaper, being spoken to like a baby, or even being led by the hand to be bathed, a lot of things can set me off.
The main thing, and I cannot stress this enough for newbies and people curious, is that you know you are safe. Know that you have nothing to worry about, and regression becomes a lot easier. [READ MORE]
Zac
21 New Jersey USA | April 30, 2012
I am an ab I don't really do it all the time though.
I mean I usually have my paci with me most of the time cause sucking on it has kind of become a stress reliever, and I partially have an oral fixation problem. So I usually need gum or paci in my mouth or I get nervous lol.
Ab side usually comes out while I'm being changed and then kind of carries on after that.
I have a bunch of clothing and stuff that I can wear when I feel like it.
Also like being thickly padded when I'm in an abish mood helps me feel more babish. [READ MORE]
