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Q10: Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as baby furs, diaper discipline, wet/messy, sissybabies, etc.? Please share. 

 
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In my ten years as an ABDL blogger, and my two decades as a member of this community, I thought I'd seen it all.

Then I put out the #WhyABDL Survey.

One of the questions I asked was whether respondents had any other fetishes or interests besides diapers - and boy, do we. 

The answers included a blank space to write in our interests - and write them in we did. And as I read them, I realized that, compared to our community as a whole, I'm actually pretty vanilla.

I enjoy being diapered, and I enjoy diapering others.

I like to give a good spanking, and have gotten a few myself through the years.

I tend to shy away from changing messy diapers - and for a long time just simply chose not to change them - but have definitely gotten more comfortable with them thanks to Z. (And, also thanks to Z, I've experienced my first messy diaper change, and now understand why it's such a powerful experience for so many of us).

I'm definitely into humiliation - as are a huge percentage of us. But I'm a nice guy, too, so I sometimes feel a little bit uncomfortable at the lengths people want to be humiliated. (Don't ask me to call you a #DiaperFag - that's one of my hard limits).

And my time on Tumblr has made me realize that I also have a fetish for some things that most people might not even think of as fetishes. Like my love for cute guys in headphones. And sneakers - whoo, give me a boy in a diaper and a nice pair of kicks. And Speedos, and guys who sag their jeans, and... well, the list goes on and on.

But my interests are nothing compared to the list of some of yours.

Scroll to the bottom of this page and you'll see a word cloud graphic containing some of the most popular answers written in by survey respondents. They are wildly diverse, and include some I expected and some I'd never heard of and had to look up.

And, have a look at what some of our Q&A respondents had to say...

- CWIS

 
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Little Skywalker

23 San Francisco CA USA | April 2, 2018

Diaper disciplinarians/daddies make me happy. For me, a big aspect of being little is the caring and loving aspect, but who doesnā€™t like being forced to wear diapers now and again? (or all the time in my case). Diaper waistbands coming out of boys pants when they are otherwise dressed like a big boy also gets to meā€¦in the best way possible. [READ MORE

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DiaperBoyAres

24, The Netherlands | January 11, 2018

Diapers are my main kink, and I think there are many ways to ā€˜enrichā€™ this fetish. I like the idea of being forced to wear a diaper and being forced to use a diaper. The first thing requires domination, and the second thing could for example be achieved with bondage. Iā€™m not into really heavy BDSM stuff, but Iā€™m pretty open-minded. Chastity, bondage, spanking and sensory deprivation appeal to me, especially in combination with diapers. I like to try out new things, but I do have my limits of course. 

I like to think in roles. Preferable Iā€™ll let the other one decide on what/who I am. 

Call me your baby, I call you daddy. Call me your slave, I call you sir.

And yeah, wet & messy, it both happens. Iā€™m kinda shy on the messy part though, it doesnā€™t happen very often. If I would be in a relationship where everything but messy diapers is ok, I would be totally fine with that. [READ MORE]

ā€œI like to try out new things, but I do have my limits of course. I like to think in roles. Preferable Iā€™ll let the other one decide on what/who I am. Call me your baby, I call you daddy. Call me your slave, I call you sir.ā€
— DiaperBoyAres
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KineseCD

20, Amsterdam, The Netherlands | April 15, 2017 

I enjoy the power fantasy regarding diapers but also think diapers can be sexy as hell in general. I'm not really into messing although it does of course have a place in the power fantasy. The rest of the deal is just too nasty for me, though. I am also an AB, which ties more into the relaxing side of it all, and it strangely also immensely helps me be confident. Diaper discipline also ties into the power fantasy so it's an interest, but I haven't experienced it yet so I couldn't say for sure. I do wet - it helps me slip into little space and holding it in pulls me out of little space. I am not too much into the crawling on the floor, going 'goo goo ga ga' and being spoonfed kind of things, but to each their own, of course ^^. [READ MORE

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ATwinkyToddler

21, Pacific Northwest USA | March 4, 2017

I think furries are cute, and if I was one, I'd be a weasel, but I am not a furry. Would I put on a fursuit and role play with someone? Probably, if given the opportunity, but I have no interest in getting a suit, nor do I really follow the fandom, but furry stuff is cute. [READ MORE

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Alexander

19, Arizona, USA | April 5, 2012 

Okay, I'm a huge fan of the idea of diaper discipline. Having a dominant guy force me into a diaper and force me to use it is just incredibly exciting. I wet my diapers when I wear, but I've never messed mostly because I think the clean-up would be a bitch (excuse my French). Baby clothes, pacis, bottle feeding, etc.  I can't really say that I know EXACTLY what I'm into since I haven't really been afforded the opportunity to explore much (who knew a fetish could be so expensive?). Hopefully I'll find someone someday I can discover more of myself with. [READ MORE

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James aka APaddedGuyJ

24, Wiltshire, United Kingdom | February 19, 2018 

In the beginning (Iā€™m sure thereā€™s a famous book that starts like that ;-) hehe) I was just in to ABDL, but the more Iā€™ve seen of this amazing community the more Iā€™ve become intrigued and interested in other aspects of the community; For me it all depends on what mood Iā€™m in.. some days I just want to be a little boy, pad up and cuddle. Other days the whole role play, nappy discipline, control\submission and humiliation side come out. If you catch me on the right day you might even see a Sissybaby side to me. I know one thing for sure, Iā€™m far from having discovered every subset of this community, thereā€™s still a lot to try. [READ MORE

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CrinklyConnor

23 Wichita KS USA | February 23, 2019

I am a babyfur for the sake of the art and community, but not really sure if it goes past that in that subset. I do wear diapers 24/7 out of choice, so wet and messy diapers are part of it, especially as a full on AB. I do also have a slight sissy side, but itā€™s not that prominent in my AB side. [READ MORE

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DBCayden

23 Dallas, TX USA | December 2, 2015 

I'm actually extremely into BDSM, humiliation, and forced diaper wearing and use. I'll use diapers for everything they're made for too lol. I'm not much of a sissy, but I AM into some neko play. So...not completely a babyfur, just the kitty ears and tail. I really wish I could find a guy around my age that would be able to help me with being a completely subservient diaper boy. That's my biggest fantasy. [READ MORE

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Leon, aka DiaperMoxxi

18 Cambridgeshire, England | February 13, 2013

Well, something that's always gone side by side with my ABDL side was my sissy side, similarly at the same ages I've always sneaked into sisters room and wore their clothes for a while and slept in them. Luckily my ex knew about this one and he helped me get comfortable with this and I ended up getting a small wardrobe over the last 2 years of girly clothes. I think they really mix together perfectly really. At least for me, I feel really comfortable dressed up girly with a diaper and a paci and my blankie which I've had for most of my life :) I went through a looooong phase of only wearing panties for a long time before I sorta grew out of it. But I've sort of replaced it with diapers really. So really, it helps me feel safe wearing either or both. It's strange and I've never really understood why but it just makes me feel happy. [READ MORE

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DiaperWhiz

28 Brooklyn NY USA | April 19, 2012

I sometimes get down with baby furs. I think there is something cool and raw about being an animal. I belong to a few TF websites, and have always been a littler turned on by transformations. When I was younger the donkey scene from Pinocchio used to creep me the fuck out, now i think its tied to that whole humiliation thing. I have dabbled around with puppy play, and I really liked it. But I haven't done much exploring with it. All I have to say is that a boy, properly padded, with a pup tail poking out from his diaper is hella HOT! [READ MORE

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Dinobaby

22 Newmarket on Fergus, County Clare Ireland | February 8, 2012 *1st Q&A Ever*

I like different aspects of other abdl related stuff such as sissy babies and loads of different fetishes which I love but not something I will ever leave the abdl stuff behind to pursue an interest in. I love the sissybaby side of things as theres lots of colour involved with the clothes like lots of pinks and purples which are some of my favourite colours. I like wearing some sissy baby clothes but will always consider myself a baby boy with girl tendencies like wearing dresses and pink plastic and ruffled panties sometimes but not all the time. The only way id ever get into sissy baby stuff more than the baby boy stuff is if I had someone to share it with. The sissy baby stuff gets boring more than the boy stuff I find when your by yourself.

Being in Ireland its difficult to meet abdl people and fetish people who tolerate the abdl stuff. Ive only meet 1 person who would dress me and treat me like a girl baby and that person is in the uk who I will hopefully be visiting regularly the more we get to know each other.

Other fetishes I like and tried a few times and would love to try others but nothing extreme or 2weird and dangerous as I don't like much pain only light to moderate pain. Most of the fetishes im interested in will always remain a fantasy for me. [READ MORE

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Dan aka Growing-boysXL

22 Leesburg, Virginia USA | May 28, 2017 

Yeah! Those of you who follow my blog (growing-boysxl.tumblr.com) prolly already know about my kinky ways, but Iā€™m majorly into the feederism fetish.  Feederism, or ā€œGainingā€ is all about men who either overeat, bloat, or get fat on purpose. Itā€™s also about another person taking charge of the ā€œfeedeeā€ and fattening them up. Itā€™s basically the sexualization of growing overweight, letting yourself go, and blowing up like a balloon.  Iā€™ve actually found it interesting in that, while some readers even now might find it odd, Iā€™ve actually discovered itā€™s one of the biggest secret subset fetishes in the community. When I started my blog, I was the only ABDL at the time even talking about the gaining fetish in the realm of diapers and regression. However as Iā€™ve talked with more and more ABDLs, many have actually opened up to me about their kink for being fed, or fattened up. There are actually about 8-12 blogs I follow now that feature a diaper boy or little who is fattening up as well, which is a 1200% improvement from when I started, lol. More and more ABDLs come to me every year confessing how theyā€™d secretly love to be one of my ā€œHanselā€s and get fattened up on sweets like an irresponsible greedy boy, but have been afraid to be open about it.   It fits in really well in a lot of guys heads with the regression kink, with greedy boy archetypes like Augustus Gloop, Bruce from Matilda, or Hansel all examples of greedy boys who need to be chided and teased for being so greedy and childish.  I think a lot of the reasons guys arenā€™t as forthcoming with it is because the idea of growing fat is so frowned upon, in the gay community especially, and guys think they wonā€™t be considered attractive anymore if they give in to their desires. I myself have dealt with a lot of body image issues as well due to this.  Itā€™s actually been really cool over the past few years to see more full-figured abdls, not only those with the gaining kink, come out of their shells and start posting. It makes me really really proud to see people accepting the beauty of their own bodies.  This goes without saying but if anyone is curious about gaining, and wants to talk openly or discreetly about it, or just find out more, please shoot me a message! Iā€™d love to hear from you! [READ MORE

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JamesFrost

26 Chicago Illinois USA | July 19, 2018 

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Diapers and abdl are the root of all of my kink. I would have never become involved, or even thought to explore my other kink headspaces if I hadnā€™t discovered my little side. I was exclusively an abdl for almost ten years. About three years ago I made some amazing friends at Capcon who introduced me to pup play and it snowballed after that. I got into the leather scene, rediscovered my fem boy side that had been repressed from childhood (I use to run around the house and play as the female villains from power rangers), and I discovered that I loved spanking and impact play. I now run educational impact play sessions at events.

The last three years have been an awakening for me. I finally allowed myself up to open up and I have honestly never been happier. Through all of this I found my daddy and abdl family. I have three amazing people, who I would call pillars in the community, that protect and mentor me. I have learned so much about who I am from these amazing people in my life.   The torch passes in this community. Their mentorship has helped me to become a better caretaker. Iā€™m a big bro ā€“ I love and mentor five amazing little bros. I want them and anyone whom I meet that is new to the community, to experience the same love from this community that I have felt over and over again. [READ MORE

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Jeffy

22 Austin Texas USA | February 9, 2013

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I was banned from using the internet at home after I was outed, as I attributed my sudden fascination with diapers to random internet searches, but I didnā€™t create any accounts until I was about 15 or 16, and I was forced to use only forums, and was scared to look at pictures or be a part of picture-sharing websites like DeviantArt because I could only use the internet from school. However I do remember my first impressions of the ABDL community were not so good, but my first site I signed up for was Teenbabynet.org and TBDL.org before it bacame ADISC. I wasnā€™t used to forum etiquette and was constantly reprimanded or shunned for being ā€œcreepyā€ or ā€œweirdā€ when in truth, I really had no idea how to act, and I mistook it for them being mean or judgemental. I eventually learned how to use my voice through typing and was able to convey a more complex personality underneath the diaper-crazed blueberry fox you see in the pictures I commission. [READ MORE

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LBPrince99

19 Atlanta GA USA | December 7, 2018

Iā€™m just a little diaper lover who loves to wet and mess, sometimes even with a good enema or a semi strong laxative. I do enjoy getting taken care of such as changes and being placed in diapers thick enough to waddle about in. I do enjoy wearing onesies and thigh high socks behind closed doors, but would prefer to wear something much more concealed if and when out in public. [READ MORE

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Chuck aka LittleBoyC

23 Kansas | December 13, 2014

Yes my interest do! I do enjoy some sissy play and diaper punishments. Iā€™m also looking more to my furry side and puppy play! [READ MORE

LittleBoyJakey

21 Richmond, VA | November 13, 2020

As much as I originally never wanted to admit it, I am a diaper pup as well as a little! Pup space is not a hard jump from little space and I think thatā€™s why it has always called to me (also collars and onesies I mean have you seen the combo!). I think pup space and little space are almost identical kinks just one has a little more cuteness (ill let you decide which one!) thankfully Olive helped me explore my pup side and having close friends (and idols for the longest time) like @jamesfrost_3 (a ABU diaper god and fantastic baby sitter) and @pupjacksonboy ( a part-time babysitter and unofficial big for me) really helped me get out of my comfort zone and become the little crinkly pup that Iā€™ve always been!

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Littleguyau

35 Melbourne, Victoria Australia | November 4, 2018

I don't think I'm too removed from the mainstream ABDL archetype. Although, I haven't had anyone with which to explore options. I have (regressed?) from a DL to a little thanks to encouragement from an LA friend who lived with me briefly in Sydney. [READ MORE

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Little Joshy

20 Suburban Philadelphia, PA USA | January 5, 2016 

I'm not sure what else I like because I haven't gotten to experiment with anyone else yet. There's tons of stuff i want to try, mainly BDSM. I'm willing to try most anything to see if i like it. I just have to find the right guy first. [READ MORE

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Lorenzo

21 Ohio USA | January 17, 2017

I am a neko boy, little, I love making messy and wet in my diaper. My little bro pedigreeangel always teases me calling me a sissy boy, even though he is one to hehe. I did have some experiences where I had real accidents. Like on baby-gizz's birthday I was thinking about wearing a diaper to work to celebrate but then I was like il wear when i get home. Then after work really had to go to the bathroom. I got home then ran up the stairs. Opened up my apartment door then stepped in then I messed my pants on accident. Im like of all days I had a real accident in my pants on gizzy's birthday. I told gizzy, he laughed and said "looks like you really do need to wear diapers from now on". Was pretty silly and cute.

Another time was at disney world. We were heading out of the magic kingdom then my dad asked if I had to use the bathroom I said no im fine. We got on the busses to head back to our resort hotel. Then I felt the urge to go potty. I had to mess so bad. I held it in and was tooting alot. Finally got off the bus ran towards our room but my parents had the key. I told them to hurry up. They unlocked the door then I ran to the bathroom then opened the toilet seat but it kept closing down on me. Then all of a sudden it happened, I messed my pants. Im like no way all that holding it in and of all places I had a accident right in the bathroom near the toilet. My parents yelled at me and said "how did you mess yourself when you were in the bathroom already. It was so embarrassing. [READ MORE

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LT

22 Virginia USA | February 6, 2013

I'm *very* interested in the discipline aspect that falls beneath the diaper spectrum for me. Diapers and age play put me at a younger frame of mind and discipline goes hand in hand with that younger mind frame for me. I'm interested in corner time, mouth soaping, punishment lines and most particularly, spanking. To me, the perfect situation is being a diaper boy and having someone to take me over their knee whenever I step out of line for any reason. And admittedly, I'm interested in more than just a few taps.. I want something real, something I'm going to feel for a while... and hopefully something that will reduce me to tears. [READ MORE

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Mez

26 Anaheim CA USA | January 12, 2016 

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ļ»æDiaper and ABDLā€™s are just one type of things people are into. Personally Iā€™m a furry and a BDSM boy while being in diapees. But I feel I cant live without the other parts of me, and sometimes they over lap.

Sometimes Iā€™m treated as a baby when I serve Doms and when Iā€™m being fed or punished, sometimes Iā€™m bound up. When I fed my AB lil bro, I fed him with him tied down to a chair and wear his adorable bib. And sometimes I feed him with my hand since I sometimes forget how to use play forks, and it can messy.

When I draw my character, he is usually in a diaper and always visible. And when I wear white diapers sometimes I like to draw a wolf tail or other furry images to show off my cute diapees. Sometimes I will even draw for other crinkle butt and then we all can have tails on our diapees.

Even my Daddy has a BDSM influence on his parenting style which is why I feel at home when Daddy is taking care of me and my brothers. [READ MORE

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Min

33 Colorado Springs CO USA | November 15, 2016

I enjoy all the aspects of the AB lifestyle, spending little time with my girlfriend as both of us being little or one of us switching for the other and being mommy or daddy, being punished (spanking, restrained, enemas/suppositories & diapers and being forced to wear girly clothes) or just cuddling and watching a movie or playing games. [READ MORE

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NappiedMike

London UK | November 26, 2012

Not necessarily - I'm up for most things. I guess I'm more DL than AB, but love some of the clothing (I really like adult clothing that accommodates the nappy and makes it easy to access - snap fasteners and onesies tick theses boxes nicely). [READ MORE

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Oliver

26 Rochester NY USA | July 8, 2018

Very much into BDSM, puppy play, chastity, water sports, leather and rubber, all of which overlap nicely with this side of me. Also, I love to be a little stinker. [READ MORE

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OneFitStoner420

28 Providence RI USA | June 10, 2018

I explored babyfur for a while and disciplinarians and truthfully would love to be forced into diapers. [READ MORE

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PaddedCrinkles

33 Phoenix AZ USA | April 14, 2019

I find myself a bit all over the map here. I would not consider myself a babyfur or a furry but I do find myself fascinated with that community and have come to learn a great deal about it. Therefore, I am well educated but not a participant. My husband will sometimes take a soft caretaker role, and that's always fun, but it is not something I would ever want full time. Diaper punishments, within reason, are enticing to me and something I do partake in from time to time. If my husband is in his caretaker mode, I do like to push things to the point of various punishments, which are not typically sexual. When I'm feeling especially little, secretly messing and trying not to get caught being messy around the house is a favorite of mine. Lastly, sissification is a turn off for me and something I have little interest in.

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Padded-DJ

27 New Orleans LA USA | June 3, 2018

I have been trying to explore every facet of the community. I am not really turned off by any of it but it does not necessarily get me going. I am into wetting/messing and really any more submissive traits. I do identify as a switch though and want to try being a daddy/big bro, sissying etc at some point in the near future but for now I am just enjoying being little and submissive. [READ MORE

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Pup Artemis

27 San Fransisco CA USA | October 16, 2018

Well I am a diaper puppy as I mentioned. I also do handler stuff well diapered. But as a puppy my diapers are a very important part of my. Itā€™s me showing my vulnerability. Yes I a big strong Alpha who tops all the subby dogs and tries his best to be a roll model. But sometimes I need help to. I need a change. Or someone to find my pacifier and let me curl up in there lap. Itā€™s basically my way of helping connect to a handler or another Alpha in saying ā€œokay. I trust you enough that Iā€™m gonna let you see me vulnerable and trust you to take care of this part of me.ā€ [READ MORE

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PupKeno

25 New York, NY USA | August 2, 2018

Iā€™m very diverse when it comes to my interests involving diapers.  I find that diapers are very versatile and can be incorporated into other kinks. Things that interest that is diaper related is diaper discipline, diaper humiliation, daddy changing wet and messy diapers, bondage scene with diapers included, regression by diapers, and slaves wearing diapers just to put them in a sub space etc. [READ MORE

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Ronikat

18 San Diego, CA USA | August 18, 2012

Umm I'm a Babyfur, my fursona is a Baby Panther/ Hyena hybrid.  Ive been a part of the Babyfur community since i was like 13 and have met a lot of great friends through it.  It gave me another way to just enjoy being who i am and continue being cute and adorable hehe :P [READ MORE

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Shadow

28 Austin TX USA | February 9, 2019

Iā€™m kinda exploratory in all of it. I am definitely into wearing 24/7 and wetting/messing. I have had some fun and enjoy being a sissy sometimes, and love being forced to wear and use them. I enjoy just learning new things and trying different things. Very open to life. [READ MORE

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TeddyNhislittle

22 Chicago IL USA | February 9, 2019

Diaper discipline has always interested me tbh. While I'm not a babyfur/diaper fur I do enjoy the art of the community like babystar and Colten to name a couple. [READ MORE

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ThePaddedProfessional

26 Philadelphia PA USA | January 29, 2012 

Well, I'm definitely an ab...I like a daddy to take care of me and change my diapers when i need.  also know that sometimes i'm a naughty boy and need to be spanked. [READ MORE

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ToddlerBoiCharlie

19 Charlotte, NC USA | October 31, 2012

Well see I have a very limited actual real life experience in anything with the diaper community but I have adopted a policy for it. See I am someone that wants to try and experience things in order to be sure if I like them. So my policy is that I will try almost anything once!

Things that I am into for sure:

Wet and Messy Diapers

Adult Baby/Toddler

Diaper Dicipline

Light bondage 

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Welshdiaper

24 Wales UK | May 8, 2015

As I mentioned above, my interest first began around the age of 14. However I didn't really get much time on a computer until I was 16. From there, I found all sorts of websites, my first viewing of women wearing diapers, was from dailymotion, featuring models from wellpadded.com. From there, I did some research, and spent a lot of time on dailydiapers.com,  and as I got older, branched my way out into finding sites such as fetlife, abdlmatch, diapermates and this fine blog. [READ MORE

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