I’ve been into diapers and age-play for most of my life, and active in those communities for the last twelve years or so (ever since I turned 18). I hadn’t been exposed to, nor put much thought into other kinks though. In 2016, by complete happenstance, I had the pleasure of meeting Pup Delta. We bonded quickly over mutual interests in and out of the community space, and we’ve been close ever since. He introduced me to countless community members and spaces where I felt comfortable exploring my headspaces. Delta is a little pup and it didn’t take long for me to meet others in my local community. I started developing an interest in puppy play, and it soon became a headspace that I found myself wanting to explore regularly. I found myself comparing my puppy and ABDL headspaces often. In my personal experience, I had many similarities between the headspaces. Regressing to an infantile state as an ABDL, and reverting to what I would call a “primal state” as a puppy. On a surface level, I think it can be easy to understand that both littles and puppies want to relinquish their responsibilities and be cared for. However, there may be differences in how individuals want to receive attention in each headspace. I’m generally a little more playful when in puppy space, and more reserved in little space (..unless the nerf guns come out..), but neither take on exclusive feelings, and are certainly dependent on the situation for me.

I identify as an Alpha/Lil Pup and Big Bro/Little Boy switch. While I will always love little space, I am an educator in my career, a lifelong learner, and I find my greatest sense of achievement when I mentor others. While I do enjoy the domineering traits that accompany these roles, I am a very nurturing Alpha Pup and Big Bro. I may do a spanking scene with my beta pup, or little bro, and then all I want to do is pull them in tight for cuddles and provide the best aftercare that I can. I enjoy helping others to experience new things in a safe and loving environment. Also, pushing them to achieve new goals within their limits.

The advice I always give to new community members, is to try your best to meet others in the community and attend as many community events as you can. Share stories, ask questions, and have fun with new friends. I know there are often limiting factors that can make these seem unattainable for the moment, but it can really broaden your view of the greater kink community.

Please feel free to approach me at events, or send me a message on social media. I’d be happy to share my experiences with you, and hear your stories.